Introduction
When one child is diagnosed with autism, the whole family is affected. While parents often focus on therapies, school meetings, and daily routines, siblings are also quietly navigating big emotions. They may feel confused, left out, or unsure how to connect with their brother or sister.
Supporting siblings is essential — because when the whole family feels seen and included, everyone thrives.
1. Acknowledge Their Feelings
Siblings may feel a mix of emotions — pride, love, frustration, jealousy, or even embarrassment. Let them know their feelings are normal and safe to express. Open conversations help them feel valued.
2. Create Special One-on-One Time
Even a short walk, bedtime story, or special outing shows siblings they are just as important. This builds connection and reduces feelings of being “pushed aside.”
3. Explain Autism in Age-Appropriate Ways
Young children need simple explanations (“Your brother’s brain works differently, and that’s why he needs help with…”) while older siblings may want more detail. Encourage questions and give honest answers.
4. Include Them in the Journey
Invite siblings to be part of small routines — helping with a sensory activity, celebrating progress, or joining therapy games at home. Involvement fosters understanding and reduces resentment.
5. Build a Support System for Them Too
Siblings benefit from their own outlets — support groups, books, or connecting with other kids in similar situations. Knowing they are not alone can make all the difference.
Closing
Every sibling’s experience is unique. By listening, including, and supporting them, families can create a home where all children feel valued and connected.
💙 At Spectrum Support Services Foundation, we believe that when siblings thrive, the whole family thrives.
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